What i was trying to express but failing

I'm not a racist person and I've never dated one so when that question got thrown at me i tried to be as fair as possible.I'm not a grammar expert and I'm not always great at explaining myself. The show really didn't have the time for me to express it and i really hate being misunderstood so i decided to write about it here as it is my blog anyway. The point i was trying to get at was i don't like to judge and i don't try to control people. Also i like to see situations from all angles even ones i find distasteful so i usually find myself being devils advocate. I know everyone was very passionate about their opinions i did say that i wouldn't date someone like that because of the negativity and lack of open-mindedness which seems to go along with it. I don't think people heard me tho.The focus seemed to be on how i was saying it incorrectly so i tried to explain further but each attempt i felt it got further off track. I was trying to be understood but failing miserably. I felt every attempt wasn't seen because of the intensity of the debate.I felt that because of the anger and judgement that had been passed as to what sort of person i was that i wouldn't be heard and id continue to have all i attempted to say picked apart so i gave up and decided to explain here instead. I personally do not approve of racism and no i was not suggesting that if u dated one u could in any way change them etc,etc what i was trying to avoid was mob mentality. I am not going to jump on the persecution bandwagon just because everyone else is. I was trying to play devils advocate as i usually do and try to draw attention to other possible perspectives based on various circumstance to make people think and ended up feeling kind of tared and feathered for it. I feel no ill feelings towards anyone even tho assumptions were made and later some hurtful things were said. People sometimes prefer to see the negative i cant control that. I'm sorry if my attempts to clarify upset anyone i guess i shouldn't have tried and just finished what i was trying to say here on the blog after all. I was not trying to mislead people i just wanted to be understood because i know I'm not always.Thanks for listening. Much love to u. Xo wytchie

Upcoming Shows for week May 28-29

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Wytchie Wisdom - Things life has taught me

- People don't like sad people
- Reality can be depressing
- Our perceptions create our reality, so change perception, change reality
- Changing perceptions can be difficult
- The only one you can completely depend on is yourself
- You can't please everyone so trying to is pointless
- If people can't accept you for you that's their problem
- People who try to change me into what they want me to be have no place in my life
- Real friends support you in your endeavors they don't tear you down
- I haven't always been a good friend
- I'm not perfect
- Treat people how you want them to treat you
- Just because I like sex doesn't mean there isn't more to my personality
- I believe in happily ever after
- True love is possible I've seen it
- how people treat people and animals when they don't think your looking says a lot about them
- Be true to thyself an oracle told me
- Success is about happiness not $$$
- A persons soul is more attractive then their outer shell
- I'm my own worst enemy
- I'm too hard on myself
- I'm self entertaining
- Stronger people admit their mistakes, admit they have emotions, admit their vulnerable
- Being financially independent is a more desirable state then being dependent as it gives people the opportunity to be abusive.
- People who can't love you at your worst don't deserve you at your best.
- People who truly love you accept all of you not just the bits and pieces that they approve of
- People who lie to you to try and control and manipulate you are being mentality abusive. Don't believe anything they say consider the source.
- Open relationships, BDSM relationships and other deviant relationships require more trust then a supposed "normal" relationship so thing's that dissolve trust like lies will destroy the trust and hence the relationship.
- Honest communication is key to all successful relationships

- I will add more as I'm inspired or remember