Happy Caturday

My cat makes me giggle when he talks to me seeing this it looked like an interesting composition so I had to share.

Evil plans Aug 27-30

Multifaceted Artist, Singer/Songwriter, Actress, Dancer, Machinimatographer, Writer, Figurative 2D Artist, 3D Clothing and Object Designer, Relationship Adviser, Spiritually Enlightened Wiccan and Comedic Pervert.

Second Life ~ @ 11 AM slt/pst  Aug 27 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Kickin Club Live Music

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Kickin/184/185/24

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Second Life ~ @ 8 PM slt/pst Aug 28 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

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Second Life ~ @ 9 PM slt/pst Aug 29 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Solana 's Place

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tender%20Heart/217/207/23

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 Second Life ~ @ 10 PM slt/pst Aug 30 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

4 booking ~ pls use wytchwhisper@facebook.com with BOOKING in the title I dont like to rely on the inventory system delivery in world. If i dont respond to u immediately im not ignoring u pls try again.

Follow me on Facebook too @ Wytchwhisper

My schedule FYI is on My Website ~ http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.ca

Original songs and Memorable Shows - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/w.html 

Pr Info, Pricing, Photos  - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/pr-info.html

Song List - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/song-list.html





Your Perspective

Regardless of media or face to face if people don't want to hear what your saying they won't. Even if you  repeat the same answer three or more times when someone is in a full blown rant it's all about them and nothing you say will matter cause they can't hear u anyway. Some people will also  repeatedly ask questions they don't want the answers to then get angry when you answer them. That makes no sense to me if you know a possible answer will upset you why ask the question unless of course you want to upset yourself or back up your own negative thinking because your looking for negative things to be upset about. Asking the first time you may not be aware but asking someone how their day is when you know life is currently shitty for them and then getting mad when they confirm yes life is shitty is unfair to them. I think people who do that are jaded and constantly looking for proof to back up their jaded reality. What you choose to see will be is a very true statement. If your personal reality is all rose colored glasses everything you encounter you will be able to find a positive in. Well the dog got run over but hey we don't have to pick up poo anymore for example. If your personal reality is jaded everything you encounter will have negative in it. The dog got run over and it was all a conspiracy to upset me for example. In a more truthful reality the dog got run over fact. We as humans always interpret our reality based on our attitude of the current moment. If your having a shitty morning unless you change your perspective to positive chances are your day will continue on a negative course. Changing perspective isn't always easy sometimes to bring yourself into the positive you have to distract your mind from the negative via enjoyment music, tv, etc. If you have a strong will you can do it even when people are ranting at you. I learned during my years in customer service that shit rolls downhill and many customers realizing you have to be nice regardless will take opportunity to direct all their anger and frustration and release it on you so they can feel better about themselves. I learned to deal with others anger by smiling,  nodding, talking calmly no matter what they throw at you and trying to find the positive in the situation; like maybe when they leave they will slip on a banana and after falling and almost dying from their injury perhaps they may feel bad about their actions and try being nicer to people. While this is happening I continue to smile sometimes going to my happy place and thinking of things unrelated. When it's quiet again my attention will shift back inquire weather their calm enough to talk rationally if so we discuss solutions if not I tell them to have a nice day and come back when they want to discuss more. Knowing the hurtfulness of spontaneous anger words  if I am angry which takes a lot but it does happen I will withdraw so I don't unintentionally hurt people I care about, I will analyze the situation to take responsibility for my parts in it and when I am done and calm will discuss my feelings with those I'm angry with. If no solutions are found in the first discussion I will attempt to resolve it in later conversation. I don't like sweeping things under the rug as it causes resentment and misunderstanding which causes cracks in any foundation. That's my evil plans for anger management. That being said I'm only human and if the envelope is pushed to far I will explode like a volcano and try recovery thru retreat and analysis. Some people in the past have not understood my actions but I know my truth and I can't control how others judge or assume so they will see what they want to based on their perspective.

Evil plans for Aug 20 - 23

Multifaceted Artist, Singer/Songwriter, Actress, Dancer, Machinimatographer, Writer, Figurative 2D Artist, 3D Clothing and Object Designer, Relationship Adviser, Spiritually Enlightened Wiccan and Comedic Pervert.

Cancelled this week - Second Life ~ @ 11 AM slt/pst  Aug 20 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Kickin Club Live Music

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Kickin/184/185/24

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Cancelled this week - Second Life ~ @ 8 PM slt/pst Aug 21Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

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Second Life ~ @ 9 PM slt/pst Aug 22 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Solana 's Place

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tender%20Heart/217/207/23

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Cancelled this week - Second Life ~ @ 10 PM slt/pst Aug 23 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

4 booking ~ pls use wytchwhisper@facebook.com with BOOKING in the title I dont like to rely on the inventory system delivery in world. If i dont respond to u immediately im not ignoring u pls try again.

Follow me on Facebook too @ Wytchwhisper

My schedule FYI is on My Website ~ http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.ca

Original songs and Memorable Shows - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/w.html 

Pr Info, Pricing, Photos  - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/pr-info.html

Song List - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/song-list.html





Evil plans for the week of Aug 13-16

Multifaceted Artist, Singer/Songwriter, Actress, Dancer, Machinimatographer, Writer, Figurative 2D Artist, 3D Clothing and Object Designer, Relationship Adviser, Spiritually Enlightened Wiccan and Comedic Pervert.

Second Life ~ @ 11 AM slt/pst  Aug 13 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Kickin Club Live Music

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Kickin/184/185/24

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Second Life ~ @ 8 PM slt/pst Aug 14 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

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Second Life ~ @ 9 PM slt/pst Aug 15 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Solana 's Place

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Tender%20Heart/217/207/23

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Second Life ~ @ 10 PM slt/pst Aug 16 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Wytchwhisper

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marsco/200/193/207

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Second Life ~ @ 6 PM slt/pst Aug 17 Wytchwhisper Sings @ Nos Fundraiser
(Network of Sobriety)
You can find out more information about them here
http://networkofsobriety.com/

http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Champ/33/131/36
http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Keng%20Group/46/128/25

4 booking ~ pls use wytchwhisper@facebook.com with BOOKING in the title I dont like to rely on the inventory system delivery in world. If i dont respond to u immediately im not ignoring u pls try again.

Follow me on Facebook too @ Wytchwhisper

My schedule FYI is on My Website ~ http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.ca

Original songs and Memorable Shows - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/w.html 

Pr Info, Pricing, Photos  - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/pr-info.html

Song List - http://wytchwhisper.blogspot.com/p/song-list.html





We need more white hat programming cause the black hats r winning

I responded to an article on effective wireless networking but am not sure it will be posted cause it kinda counters the original article message which was meant to be reassuring. So I decided to share it here as this is essentially what I was experiencing when I was having all those hacker issues at my gigs before I sent my computer in and was gone from SL for over 6 months. 

"I think the reality is that security is an illusion to some extent.  It seems like as tech becomes more consumer friendly it exposes vulnerabilitys which haven't entirely been solved. Wps is tech in your router that's supposed to make it quicker and easier for visitors to connect to your network great huh yeah for hackers too cause they can eventually break thru it by using a program which resemble s a battering ram. Once connected to your network there are programs hackers use which can spoof your Mac address from the attackers device allowing them to pretend to be u and happily use up your data plan as I expensively discovered.  There are ways to turn the attackers devices into man in the middle devices that sit between your device and your router or service provider so the hacker gets access to everything sent to u and can choose weather to let that email Or sms from someone thru or not or even change the content of it. They can arp poison your network and hijack your session s to access your personal log ins I discovered a year before heartbleed was announced and people didn't believe me they thought it wasnt possible lol. I know all this cause it all happened to me and the person doing it was so confident they let enough slip that I eventually put it all together. I think the reality is that tech needs more white hat programming out there as it seems that the black hats r winning currently. With the programming becoming simpler to use for the average Joe even the panty Sniffer you have as a neighbor can use it to make your life miserable if they feel so inclined sadly. So my advice no wps routers and look up arp poisoning , denial of service attacks and Mac flooding to see how u can TRY to defend yourself and change your passwords frequently. hugs "

Ww

informative related article ARP

Interesting reading this morning...

Interesting reading this morning... in my experience when people try to control, bully or manipulate u best way to react is not to play if they can't make you react or respond how they want to they lose power over u. It's unfortunate that people feel the need to do that..One of the many reasons I choose not to manipulate people in my life is cause if you do you can't trust that their actions are their own. How do you know if someone really loves you or likes you if you threaten them. By controlling others you feed your insecurity which is kinda ironic if you think about it...

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