Hi guys. I could spew a bunch of crap to u about the holidays but I won't. I know this season can be extremely hard for some people due to life n love losses etc. Life isn't always kind or easy. It is good to remember that u r not alone. Even when it feels that way. When we r isolated inside our heads its easy to focus on the Negative. Its more of a challenge to see the positive. We lie to ourselves all the time as we can't honestly say we can know others thoughts. We can get impressions but its all influenced by our history and our baggage. Its made more confusing by dishonesty from others. I woke up feeling down today. Had memories about things people have said and wondering what was the truth. I will probably never know. Anyways my point is that we create our own happy thru our perceptions so if we choose to focus on the unhappy or on the happy its our choice. A lot of people won't take responsibility for their happy and put the responsibility on others which will guarantee the unhappy as people don't always live up to others expectations. That being said I hope u take responsibility and choose your happy. Life is an adventure so make a choice to focus on the happy whether they be memories or current. Take care of u, be kind to others and please have a happy holidays Xoxox Wytchie
